30 Honest Life Facts You Should Know Before You Hit 30

 

Hitting the big 3-0 is a monumental step for anyone. Are you equipped with the essential life lessons to do in the next decade of your life?

The transition from your 20s to your 30s will not happen in predictable increments. Instead, you'll wake up one day, look in the mirror, and realize, "I'll be in my 30s." ?? You will feel like time is flying in the blink of an eye and you will feel like you are on a different path. The lessons you have learned will not suddenly come to mind like a tidal wave of wisdom. Instead, you'll feel a slight change in how you perceive things when you're in your teens and 20s.

30 life facts you need in your 30s

If you feel like your 30s are approaching and you haven't learned enough, take a refresher course. Below are 30 life facts that everyone should know from the age of 30:

1: Your body will never be as fit and strong as you once were. Your metabolism slows down as you age, so you won't be as fit as before without a little elbow grease.

2: Your 20s will catch you, be prepared.

All the cheap booze, cigarettes, bad sleeping habits, and even worse eating habits will one day get you. Flip an unhealthy lifestyle before it causes irreparable damage to your body.

3: It's time to invest in classic pieces in your wardrobe. Your 20s are the time to explore fashion or keep up with trends. Appropriate work clothes and a respectable wardrobe are more important in your 30s.

4: When it comes to clothes and shoes, it is now fashionable to relax. Shoes that pinch your feet or shirts that are too tight can lead to more practical pieces. Sure, some may look scruffy, but they're much more comfortable!

5: Children can be your greatest joy and your greatest pain. No matter what your children do, you will always find them in your heart to love and forgive them.

6: Everyone wants passion in their life.

Whether you're browsing a video game or harboring an intense love of the author, your passion has given you a lifetime of flavor.

7: Experience makes you happier than properties. The joy of buying new things fades with time. On the other hand, experiences like out-of-town trips or a long meaningful conversation allow you to relive those memories over and over again.

8: Staying in a job you hate isn't worth it. If you are not satisfied in any way with your job, go out and open yourself up to new employment options. Wasting your time in a job you're desperate for will only harm your mind and body.

9: Your plans don't always start to bear fruit. The plans you made when you were in your 20s will change as you finally get out. Come on.

10: Some good things happen with luck, but that doesn't mean you shouldn't increase your luck. You're in luck if you happen to stumble upon your big break. But remember, you also need to work on your craft to be celebrated in your field.

11: Learning never stops.

Every day can be a learning experience. You may think you learned something irrelevant today, but you never know when you might use that knowledge.

12: The journey matters, if not more, than the destination. Let's use an analogy: Back in high school, were you more worried about the lessons you learned and the friends you made, or the piece of paper they gave you when you were finished?

13: You will change and not everyone will like it. Our little moles are devastated to know that someone doesn't like us. As you progress in life, you will realize that it is not your job to please everyone.

14: Some things are worth the wait and it's up to you to figure out what those things are. It can be anything from the man or woman of your dreams to the space you expect. The thing is, only YOU can determine how long to wait for them.

15: The past shouldn't dictate your future. You don't wear your mistakes and failures on your sleeves. Not everyone will know and not everyone will care. Don't let a dark past stain your future.

16: Changing role models are okay. You may have idolized Lady Gaga, Beyonce, or Barney Stinson in your 20s because they're who you want. But when you're in your 30s, you might be surprised if your role model is your parent, a historical figure, or even a fictional character!

17: Your debts will have an effect on your future. Unpaid MasterCard debts, bank loans, and student loans can have an effect on your credit score. this can greatly have an effect on your credit once you got to borrow cash in the future.

18: Everyone needs simple pleasures.

The habit of picking me up must be so easy, especially if you have a stressful day. Whether it's cuddling with your pet or a slice of cake, these little pleasures can give you the added boost you need to keep going.

19: You have to learn to embrace change to move forward. Whether you realize it or not, your jobs will change. The key to embracing it is your ability to adapt and your willingness to trust.

20: Kindness and compassion mean more than intelligence and wealth. People will remember your kindness more than the things that remind you of your cleverness or the time you picked up their tab at the bar.

21: You will lose friends along the way and that's okay! New jobs, spouses, children, and hobbies often cause friends to break up. You don't need to move heaven and earth to stay as close as they once were. Instead, learn to let go and make new friendships.

22: You have to love your family while they are still here. They won't be there to guide you forever. Reconnect with them, get to know them a little better, and most of all, learn from the wisdom they can still impart.

23: A sincere apology can fix a big rift. No matter how late your apology is, the impact may be big enough to re-establish the relationship you once had.

24: Nothing can be lighter for the soul than forgiveness. You don't need to forget; But when you forgive someone, you can slowly let go of the weight of your wrongdoings.

25: Bad relationships are there to learn. Don't beat yourself up for being in a bad relationship. Learn from the experience and identify warning signs so that they never happen again.

26: You can't always keep your promises, but still, work hard to keep them. To avoid the awkward situation of making a promise, be careful with who you make a promise.

27: Love isn't always enough. You may realize that there may be greater things going on in your relationships than one that can prevent you from building a future together, no matter how much you love a person.

28: Intelligence is contagious.

Surround yourself with those who are smarter than you. We learn more from the people around us than we think. Mental stimulation in the form of smart conversations can be one of the most satisfying life experiences.

29: Kindness can be found in the most unlikely places. Boo Radley and the Good Samaritan are great examples of this. Don't let someone's culture or appearance make you think they are not affectionate.

30: 30 is not “old”. There is a fear that someone close to 20 feels when they approach 30. This will not come as a barrage of stray gray hair and wrinkles. You may look and feel as fresh and fit as you were in your 20s, but you'll be armed with a lot more knowledge! Embrace your 30s!

Life is all about learning in different ways. What you know in your teens, 20s, 30s, and 40s will change over time. And within these changes are life facts that you will learn at your own pace, in your way. Embrace your 30 as you approach and don't forget to take these life lessons with you!